Rules… rules… rules...!!! We usually get sick of the word ‘rules’ don’t we? But when it comes to friendship; we, kind of, frame certain unwritten rules, unconsciously, which we expect our friends to abide by.

Our friends do every little thing they can, to show us they care for us. They have been always there, 24 by 7 at our back and call, always been a source of strength for us, a shoulder to cry on, to lend an ear to us whenever we are in distress.

But what is our duty towards them? Simply hanging out together at the coffee shop, giggling and sharing some tits and bits of life, sleeping over at their place…??? Is that all we can do for them? Is this enough to be called ourselves their fabulous friend? Well... we can do a little more than this…

Here are some golden rules to abide by yourself and for your friends, so as to live up to the standard of being a fabulous friend:

1) Maintain secrecy: If your friend has confided in you a secret, which he/she wants it to be kept within yourself only, then never let it out. Friendship is all about trust and faithfulness. It is a bond sealed with love, care and respect for each other.

2) Be truthful: always be true to your friends. If you want to share a long lasting friendship, then tell him/her what is the worst thing about yourself. This way he/she will know that you trust him/her and your friend too will do the same way. Do not leave any space for mistrust to simply even loiter near your friendship.

3) Never make the mistake of falling for your friend’s ex: value your friendship. Never give yourself the chance to make a choice between your friend and your lover. Avoid dating your friend’s Ex. Though she might say that it’s all over now and that nothing matters to her at all. But at some point of time, you will end up hurting your friend’s sentiments.

4) Never take advantage of your friends: each and every relationship is based upon give and take. So, do not always take and take and take from your friends. Cherish your friendship and remember to return the things you borrowed or took from your friends. Even if you broke or tore it by mistake, replace it.

5) Always be there to lend your ear and your shoulder: Know when to speak and when to listen. Respect your friends’ privacy, leave them alone when they want to be alone, they will get back to you when they feel they want someone to be near them. Do not be judgmental about your friends’ opinion.

6) Do not brag: do not brag about your achievements in front of your friends. If you have achieved something, share it with them first. They would be happier than you are, for your success.

7) Do not backstab your friends: do not go around spreading rumors about your friends. Refrain from speaking anything which you will not speak in front of them. Do not laugh at him/her, when he/she is embarrassed. Instead, try to lessen his/her trauma.

8) Make time for your friends: No matter how busy you are, try to call in simply to say ‘hi’. And don’t be upset over your friend’s tight schedule, be supportive and try to understand the situation.

9) Do not even slightly flirt with your friend’s spouse: Praise them in front of your friends but know your limits and know what to say or else you might ruin your own friendship.

10) Put everything on hold, when your friend calls on you: They will not call you for a silly thing, unless they need your assistance badly. Stand by them tirelessly and give them support, when they are down.

If you are well versed in these golden rules, then you will surely be successful in being the ‘Fabulous Friend’, and see the wonderful changes that come to your life and friendship.