It is said marriages are made in heaven but at the rate, we get to witness the divorce and remarriages, shows that it is no longer made in heaven but in earth itself. With the bells ringing, marriages convey a message of happiness, but does remarriage guarantee happiness? Well this is a difficult answer so we need to introspect a little on this issue, think a little more and then see if we get an answer to the statement above. It is quite difficult to overcome the loss of a relationship. Whether it is through divorce or death, does not really matter. It takes about 2-3 years to completely get over them.
Those people whose first marriage failed are so full of stress and frustrations, that they look forward in the hope of finding happiness but they forget to look into themselves. Remarriage may be able to substitute all sort of losses but it cannot heal the injuries of divorce because it has to heal on its own with time. Most of the people move on to get married again because they feel the need of a companion who can support them emotionally, financially and physically. However, this does not mean that those who remarry always have a happy ending or an awful one. Each individual has his/her own motive for getting married again.
There are some people who tend to get married just for the sake of financial security, some for the fear of bringing up children alone, etc. Those types of marriages usually end up as a failure since the motive of getting married was not true love. However, if you sincerely want to get married again just because you love the person and want to spend your life with him/her, then probably you should go for it. You never know your happiness could be hidden somewhere there.
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