Most of us are aware of the complexes that involve a relationship yet every one of us fall prey to it. Getting into a personal liaison is as easy as throwing a stone in a pond but walking out of it is very tough. To put an end to a bonding which we had valued the most and sweeping all the wonderful memories under the carpet fills us with an inner guilt.

But after noticing the signs of a bad relationship in my own, it is very difficult to keep going. You never know how long you will have to rot. After your efforts of trying to save it have failed, all you can think of it is to end it without delay. Though to take such a decision we have to be psychologically and emotionally strong.

Sometimes we find ourselves in a deep illusion after seeing the behavior of our spouse. We end up feeling guilty of our own conscience which weakens our will to walk out of it. But sit back and think a little more.

Are you willing to live the rest of your life trying to live up to the relationship? Are you ready to give up all the pursuits of your life just for the sake of a liaison which has not and probably will not work out in the future as well?

Question yourself and you will find the answer to these questions within yourself. It is never too late to end a relationship which has not worked out and start a new bonding. Probably your ‘Mr. Right’ is still waiting for you somewhere out there. So if you feel that your relationship is leading you nowhere, then the best way out is to put an end to it.

Now, how to leave a bad relationship and start a new beginning? The best way out is to talk to the person in a sensible way but do not get involved emotionally. Though its going to be very tough for both of you.

1) Try and reason out with him that there is no point in dragging a relationship which is leading you no where. But do not get involve into any argument.

2) Let him know that you have a mission in life which you want to achieve it no matter what, that you want to do something for the society and for its betterment.

3) Build your self confidence. Instead of focusing on your problems and your partner try to focus on your expertise. Explore yourself and think about the best thing you ever wanted to do.

4) Do not try to find excuses for yourself and make yourself feel guilty of your decision.

5) Give up the habit of depending on him for financial and emotional support. Show him that you are capable of living alone.

6) Have a very clear cut mind set and be firm while letting him know of your decision.

7) Talk to him about your decision only when both of you are alone.

8) Tell him gently but firmly that you have spent some memorable time with him but you do not wish to be in the relationship as it has lost its foothold. Let him see and know the loopholes in your relation

9) Do not spend much time with him, get yourself busier and do not think too much about it.

10) detach yourself from all the problems so that you do not paralyze yourself when the relationship ends up.

However, do not end a relationship in an abrupt manner. Go about it in a well planned manner so as to reduce yourself from the traumas of having gone through a broken relationship. Focus on your work and do not think too much about it. But the most important thing is to make sure that you want to end the relationship.