Falling in love again with your spouse is nothing less than an oscar award, which every artist craves for but only a few get rewarded with it. But why? Very simple, the one who makes the best efforts leaving no chance for the lame excuses, wins it. And some keep on trying till the next opportunity and the rest give up very easily. Similarly, falling in love again and that also with your spouse is a reward which gets into the lap of those couples who devote their everything for their marital bliss.

We've got this gift of love, but love is like a precious plant. You can't just accept it and leave it in the cupboard or just think it's going to get on by itself. You've got to keep watering it. You've got to really look after it and nurture it.
      - John Lennon

Me and my sweetest wife are each others heart and soul. We just cannot imagine our life without each other. In short, we are the best friends who share anything and everything without any forethought or second thought. I mean its so wonderful to fall in love with the same person again and again. You never feel like you and your spouse are two different individuals.

Happy marriages begin when we marry the ones we love, and they blossom when we love the ones we marry.
                                                                                    - Tom Mullen.

Let me share a shocking incidence with you - Today, my friends visited for a while and i thought of getting some sort of information through them for my new writings. I told them that I want to write something very interesting on relationships, but i wanted to know from them as to what could it be like?

You know what they suggested to me, I got really shocked as all of them gave me the same reply - Why you do not write on How to cheat on your spouse, find your spouse on sex sites, how to know if your spouse is cheating, preparing to leave your spouse, spy on your spouse, track your spouse!!!

Earth-shattering!!! Really, i was so shocked to hear that! What the hell is this man! What are we idiots doing to ourselves?

I mean this is so disgusting!

Then i really thanked my God that me and my wife are safe! But what of those couples who want to fall in love again with each other? How can I help them?

Then I got the idea to help those married couples who really want to rejuvenate their relationship.

So, here are some cool tips for you to rediscover the love in your marriage :

1. Make sure that you praise your partner at least once every day-

Try to mention new things that you really admire in your partner. But don’t get overboard otherwise your partner might feel as if you are trying to be somewhat superficial. As it is well said:

Praise out of season, or tactlessly bestowed, can freeze the heart as much as blame.
                    -Pearl S. Buck                                                                                                                            

Being sincere in your way of complimenting your partner, you can give a new direction to your relationship. Coz nobody from outside is going to take pains to improve your relationship. After all, who cares!

Applaud him when he runs, Console him when he falls, and Cheer him when he recovers.
                 -Unknown

You can change the life of your partner by just paying a bit more attention than you normally do.
 
No matter how busy you are, you must take time to make the other person feel important.
               -Mary Kay Ash

You yourself will notice the improvement in your partner:

• Your spouse's self-confidence will boost up.

• Your own self-esteem will increase.

• Your bonding will reach great heights.

There is no investment you can make which will pay you so well as the effort to scatter sunshine and good cheer through your establishment.
                                                       -Orison Swett Marden

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