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2. Fit yourself in the mould of your spouse-

Life is too short for keeping grudges against those who you love dearly. Who knows how long you or your spouse are going to be together. As time waits for nobody, neither we can move against it. So, its better to live each and every moment to its best when both of you are together.

So many poets have died craving for a single moment with their beloved, and you are so lucky man! God has gifted you whole life to spend with the person you are in love. Then whats the problem? Why to waste such precious moments in thinking about other trifles?

Love your spouse thinking that the nest moment your spouse is going to die. You will try to give your love the best.

Honey, you will feel that each moment that you spent with your spouse will work as a magic.

Shakespeare was the epitome of love. Each word on love that he wrote had some inexplicable magic in it. Why so? Because there was that passion, that fire in his love which could have burnt anybody. This is the real essence of love. If ever you lose this spark in your marriage or relationship, then you start thinking of the days when both of you used to be so passionate about each other.

Not only about how your partner craved for you, but also how you used to be crazt for your spouse. Here lies the difference, you always complain about that your spouse has changed! But dear, if i ask you, have you not changed? If you have changed and still love your spouse, then he/she is also like you. Do not ever take him/her for granted! Before you complain try to look at yourself first. It will really help you.

Change is the law of nature. So, everything on this earth has to go through certain changes, and you and your spouse are not the exceptions.

Move with time, believe me, you will feel much satisfied.

3. Try to add new things to your married life:

We can do no great things; only small things with great love.
                                                        - William Shakespeare

• Say I Love You at least for once everyday just to make him/her special and desired for.

• Go for an outing every weekend.
  

• Plan for a special meal or a movie together leaving everone behind.

• Send your spouse his/her favorite flowers at workplace just to pamper him/her.
  

• Go for a complete make-over at some really good salon and the new look should be in accordance with the choice of your spouse.
  

• Arrange a thanks party at your house before your spouse reaches home- the party should not be for some special ocassion like birthday or anniversary- rather it should be to thank your spouse for the love and all those sweet n special memories he/she has given you in your life.

• Send him/her a beautiful greeting card or a letter or an e-mail telling what he/she means to you and how he/she has brough happiness and contentment into your life.
  

These things will definitely reinkindle that spark, passion and love into your sagging husband/wife relationship or  your marriage. Just give a try to eash one of them one by one, and see the difference!