Falling for Your Friend’s Ex

by top54u.com 09 Jul, 2008

Love is the best thing that can ever happen to a person. But what about falling for your friend’s ex? Being very frank, it is quite natural on one’s part to adore the ex partner of your best friend and I don’t find any fault in this. Developing such type of feeling is thousand times better than falling for your friend’s present partner and then making him/her his/her ex.


However, this intricacy of relationships further strengthens my belief that lovers are indeed very stupid. I am saying so because most of you, who are reading this article, would either be curious about this intriguing facet of relationship or somewhere deep in your heart, guilty about their deed. Isn’t it a sort of stupidity?


Yes! It is a part of foolishness to think about those things which just don’t require any thinking afterwards and if you haven’t thought about it before, then you are nothing but a stupid if you use your precious brain after the job is done. Now, if I am calling you a stupid then it doesn’t imply that you should switch over to some other article, but just that one should keep this thought out of the mind. So, what if your love interest has been an Ex love interest of your friend! If two people can’t tango in love, then it does not mean that they are useless and they have lost every right to love someone else. Sometimes, it happens, people meet and spend some cherishable moments together and then they realize that they are just not made for each other. If the relationShip of your friend and his/her ex sank midway, then it is just not your fault. No need to feel guilty if you are dating your friend’s ex because if not you then there must be someone else taking up your place.


As far as your loyalty towards your friend is concerned, I can assure you that if you are reading this article, then you are definitely a good soul but confused because of your heart. You are very much loyal to your friend and the need is to convey this to your friend. Don’t let your friendship suffer due to your relationship with your friend’s old flame at least try to make every possible effort from your side.


Don’t try to convince your friend that what you are doing is right as it may further affect your friendship. Just tell your friend that you are in serious relationship with his/her ex and that’s enough. Control your emotions like talking about what you both do, how awesome you feel and bla bla bla. However, make sure that your friend’s ex is just not using you to make your friend jealous. If that is the case, then I am afraid that falling for your friend’s ex would definitely make your standing up again a bit difficult. Feel free to share your precious comments and experiences.

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