Family Mediation Post Divorce
Family Mediation is a process to resolve the family disputes that involve a divorce, which provides consolation, support and help both the parties to reach an agreement. Though all the settlements regarding properties and assets are done by the court but there are other issues such as child custody, visitation schedule and other litigations that involve after divorce.
Post divorce, our state of mind usually fails to cooperate to bring about a solution because of the negative impact of the divorce. Sometimes, because of the anger, bitterness and resentment that you feel you might voice or say something which might mar your settlement after divorce and might lead to further disputes.
Mediation helps to cope up with all the emotional stress and saves you from all the litigation costs. However, when we bring in the issue of saving a few bucks during the divorce process, it may sound a bit awkward but the fact remains that the less you spend on the process the more you will have to start a new life and if you have children that you will have sufficient resources.
What usually happens in the process of getting a litigated divorce is that you end up paying hefty sum to the lawyer and solely depend on him/her to resolve your issue which is usually a slow process and may even take ages. Through mediation, you and your spouse work together to bring about the resolution with the help of a family mediator who could be a lawyer, social worker, psychologist or some other professional. And this cuts down your expenditure in hiring a lawyer, speed up your process and both of you work together to resolve the problems you might have.
Settling things through mediation also saves you from the entire emotional trauma and financial roller coaster, which you are likely to go through if you drag the issue to the court. Apart from this it might help your children a great deal in coping up with your separation. Major upbringing decisions regarding your children could be brought about.
You can go for post divorce mediation without using your attorney, just the way you had opted for divorce mediation. Though, you should consult with your attorney about the decisions and resolution that is being brought about through the mediation, to get a fair idea about it, before you sign on the papers.
Post divorce mediation is the most effective way to settle disputes that revolves around divorce even after the final judgment. However, it may not be suitable for all individuals especially in cases where one of the spouses has been subjected to abuses and violence. A party who wants to opt for family mediation must consult their attorney to get a fair idea about the law, his /her rights and other obligation. It is completely voluntary and any party can walk out of it if they are not satisfied with the proceedings.