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How To Make A Man Happy In Bed

Updated on 29 May 2009, Published on 15 Feb 2008

How to make a man happy in bed - Sometimes, being physical with your man whom you love dearly, becomes dull and monotonous. Why so? This is a fact, everything in this world seems to get dull, though it is not so, it is the style or manner with which we handle certain things and situations that become dull. And for that, one or the other has to make some efforts to make things exciting around you.

And if your sexual activity with your man is getting quite predictable, then its the time to bring some changes. Do not always take your man for granted, I mean, do not always expect him to initiate the love-making, why can't you begin to express what you desire for?

This will make the environment really hot!!! Your man will feel the happiest ever!

As suprises are always welcomed to make your relationship happening!

Wake him up with sex, giving his body your hot sighs and sensuous gestures anywhere and everywhere you like! This is the hottest thing a woman can do to arouse her man to the climax. We bet!

Never lie down on bed with your man like a dummy, instead take the initiative to make your man happy.

Just ignore other distractions around or outside your bedroom- At the time of love-making, if there is happening something outside your house or the voices of your family members trying to distract you. Just look into each other's eyes and have a laugh and continue.

Also, do not hesitate to tell your man indirectly, that what and how you want him to treat you when in bed. Its your duty to make your partner aware of what kind of sexual pleasure you want and in what manner. With this, both of  you will enjoy the act of love making without any desires unfulfilled.

And please, please, never make your man feel that he is or was wrong somewhere while having sex with you. As this will shatter his self-confidence thereby making the things worse for both of you. If you felt that he was lacking something or gone wrong somewhere, then have a chat just after sex. Ask him in a different way if you were wrong somewhere in making him happy or was lacking something, then he will tell you that. And in return, he will also ask you the same thing, and then you tell him what you felt about his performance in bed.

This way, you will understand each other better.

Switching off the lights at the time of love making is a major turn-off for your man. Men want to see what they want to touch, so be confident of your body and present yourself in a sensual way. Just let him see you, your expressions and your body.

Talking dirty will make the situation even hotter than before. Get wild and say something really sexy in his ears. He will get highly aroused. He will simply love this wild side of your personality.

Now, the last thing for you to keep in your mind is that men love to become dominant in sex, so initiate with your hot gestures and give the whole charge to your man. Let him rule over you!

Just remember, your man is never going to tell you what he wants or desires for, and if you follow the above discussed tips, then surely the things are going to work for you! Just a bit of your own confidence turned into efforts can make your dreams come true!

Suggested Reading:
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39 Responses to "How To Make A Man Happy In Bed"

mediatrice dianna
your advices are very helpfull and they showed me the mistakes I did with my previous men and I hope I gonna change it now.
thanks for your help
Tammy
hi,
i need to know how my man can forget what happened between us 7months ago, someone told my man that i cheated on him, and know he keeps having images in his head of me and the other man togther and unless i come up with a solution today i am going to loose him i have been given till 4o'oclock today or we are finished i have been with him for 3 years and i love him loads and really dont want to loose him i really need your help and advice a.s.a.p.
pleae help me now please.
Jessica
im gonna try this. this sounds really good.
my fiance and i are starting to get a dull sex
life, and i want to find ways to spice it up.
im usually not a freak, but i will do these
tips. he is a biggg sex finatic, and i know
he'll love me waking him up to sex.

thankkkkssss<3
nanyanzi judith
this is so so sweet and sexy
patricia chimaliro
This has helped me alot. now a'm able to make my hasband happy each time in bed without any problem.
Nina
Hot!hot!
mj
me and my boyfriend has been in long-distance relationship for over 3 years and we haven't seen each other in person yet. It's really hard for us to be apart. Please help me how to conquer this loneliness of mine
alisa
hi

how can i tell my man that i am tired of the position that he is using ? what can i do to to be sexual with my man ?thanks
basona
recently my husband is loosing sex interests...i tried to grow his interest again but i failed...i did a lots of foreplay...but no response...sometime i find night falls on his inners....he admits that he is loosing interest in sex...he tries but some time his body does not response...he is 35 and i m 28...our sexual intercourse only happens once a month........now how can i overcome this problem?????????????//
DARLENE
i have done very thing i no and i can not make him happy in bed i do what he like but he will not do any thing that i like in bed and i love having sex when him now he will not come to bed at all and i dont no what to do about it i love having sex. darlene
Palesa
My man loves sex with all his heart.We always i mean always make love every night before we sleep and that makes me happy.I will try the tips above they will come in handy although my sex life is gr8!
tinkerbell103088
i was just wondering when makeing passionate love what things does a man like to here or want to here to make them feel special. me and my bf have been together for 3 months it was like love at first sight. he doesnt tell me but he shows it more than i could ever imagine. and i tell him every day that i love him and how much he means to me. but im scared that im lacking somewhere in the bedroom and i do pretty much everyting he wants me to do. hes never complained but im still scared bc he seems to think other women are sexy and very attractive ive done every thing i could to put myself up to that level but all he says is u look pretty. please can u tell me wat im doing wrong.
Nkele
Me and my boyfriend are in a distance relationship and i miss him a lot we have been each other for almost 10yrs know. His sex performance is very good the only thing that i don,t like about us is that everytime when we see each other he is struggling to have sex with me cause it sore i feel like am still virgin and i can see that he is not happy about this cause last time he complained to me so what can i do he said it means my attention is not on what we are doing is somewhere else. Then two days after i feel fine start to enjoy our sex please help me .
juanys
me and my husband have great sex sometimes, i like sex a lot and my husband too . but sometimes i think that he doesnt feel the same as before i had a baby and i feel so open from the bottom and i think he doesnt get that satisfied !! about the dirty talk umm i sometimes talk to him really dirty and believe me that really works!! try it!! but sometimes i think i go to far and after sex i feel terrrible!!
?Cabrina
Hi,,
my name is Cabrina && my boyfriend & I we hit off fast.
the sex was great at first but now it's getting dull & old...
We are Engaged now but we don't have sex like we use to do.
:(
i need your help.
I feel like am losing him as we don't really communicate with one another.
we are very happy with on another it's just are sex life!!
I try so many diff. things but he goes back to the same old thing!!
Which he agree that it is getting dull/old.
but he want take the advice i show & do with him.
he just go back doing the same-thing.

P.s. plz help me to become more out there for my boyfriend??
a.s.a.p
thanks<<33
Cabrina
Jessie Rae
i have tried all of these my boyfriend really into sex as am i so we get pretty wiled in the bedroom but on 5-9-09 i had a miscarriage and for a wile my boyfriend would even touch me in that way but after a week it straightened back out but now i want to make things even more pleasurable for him and for me to i wanna boost up the fun i just haven't quite figured out how!
Bianca
Hi

My biyfriend never believes me about anything because of rumours Should he believe those rumoiurs at work???
I really love him
dan
for starters can any one tell me how a women works
Marsha
My husband can be very possesive sometimes. He is always wanting sex. Sometimes I hate to see the weekend come because I feel like a prisoner to my bed! We never leave it. By noon the first day I am raw and sore, not only on the outer area of my vagina but by the end of the day, I am so unaroused by him his thrustung starts to hit my cervix and then it becomes really painful. I have used lube to help with the penetration, and to give some releif from the friction. But what to do about the cervix ramming? I've talked to himn about it. He comes from a family where the wife is "obligated" to give her husband sex whenever he wants it. And my man likes it alot!
Hi,my name is roxanne and im the sex fanatic in the bedroom. I want to know how to get my man more sexually active and get him to notice me more. And i have already done whats on this page but his not much of a horndog like me. Can someone help me get him excited and want me more.
muthoni
really loved this will try it
lady G
loved it
cathy
hi,
im in love with my boyfriend and he loves me too i know, but we are distance from each other, and all i ned from he is a good communication, but he lacks that, and am not happy with him on that. please help.


kristelyn
hi i have been married in about a year now...when he was my fiance he love sex a lot, now that we are married he just like to mastorbate...and i feel like he dont want me anymore,every night he just sleep without saying GOOD NIGHT..middle of the night he woke me up for his masturbate...plz give me an advice for should i do for him..thank you!!
Julie
I hav really leart alot on this page
tammy
what if your man is tired of sex with u and never show u any attention in bed unless he wants it.and when u want him he dont want u.what should i do
Recco
I had sex once and stayed for almost a year before my next time, i didnt enjoy it the first time i did it,it was very painfull the second time my boyfriend was too fast to please himself so i ended up hurt again and didnt enjoy it i stayed for more than nine month without having sex i now have someone that i really love and want to please him in every way possible he is happy with my fore play because i really know how to find my way to sartisfy my man the thing is i wanted him to have intercourse with me but it was too painful that we had to stop he said i wasnt ready for it, is there any way of making it less painfull? how many more time do you have to do it before you can really enjoy it?
tiny
how can you fix your sex life with a man you have been with for 12 years if he was unfaithful. but you both want to make it work. but the sex is horrible.
Latoya
Me and my fiancé have been together for a year... I feel as if things have changed sooo much, and non if it is positive... He tells me he loves me constantly but our sex life is dull!!! I really get nothing out of it!!! I'm scared he's going to stray away!!! And he's talking of cheating... He now says if we cheat on one another it's fine just tell each other!!! Crazy huh!!! Sooo much is going through my mind
Rachelle
I recently found out that my boyfriend is looking at porn on the computer while i am at work. Naturally i was pissed to find this out. He also has all these porn sites sending him stuff to his email! I talked to him about it and he said he was bored with our sex life and likes porn but agreed to stop looking at it. However he still has all these emails being sent to him. I have agreed to try and spice things up but i feel real bad when he is looking for pleasure somewhere else when i am not home. what more can i do.
sarah
Rachelle. Maybe you should try watching porn with your boyfriend. That would spice things up! Ask him what scenes he liked and you can act them out together.
Christie
My Husband still mastorbates to me lol. The other week I sent him a hot nude pic to his phone. Our sex is great. We really want each other. I orgasm almost everytime. Sometimes but rarely he has trouble staying hard which I think most men past thirty with 2 kids and a career probably do but I also have trouble getting wet sometimes. Age I guess and the fact that ive had a baby.
val
hi
my man cant have sex he just cant do it he says he loves me but how can he when he he cant have sex with me he as a go then gos soft i dont think he loves me think im just there to make is tea
Sabrina
I am 38. My boyfriend is 49. We have amazing sex. He is very sensitive and very attuned to my wants, needs and desires. I love giving him oral sex and he loves receiving it (obviously). Your article about waking him up was great advise and he loved it and thought it was insanely hot!!!!! Great advise and thanks!!!!
simran
Hi I m simran 23 and my boyfreind is 28 he loves this articles and wants me to do the same process for him to satisfy. Thanks a lot...........
mary
my man who i have bin wiyh 3 years cheeted on me i walked in and they were in my bed i forgave him but i cant get it out my head and i cant sleep with him in the same way cus i just keeps popping bk in my head and i hurts me loads need snyone to tell me wot to do cus i feel like ending it with him is that saying once they cheet once they will again true and will the thougts in my head go away or can u forget
Sue
My boyfriend and I lost our virginities to each other recently, and it's been great. We both love sex, but he's self conscience about his performance. I tell him how amazing he makes me feel but he's still worried he's not good enough or doesn't last long enough and now he's so frustrated with himself he doesn't even want to have sex anymore. How do I help him feel better? Or at least more confident in himself?
Top54u.com
Hi Sue,

Thnx for trusting us!

What we feel in your case is that your boyfriend might be having a problem of premature ejaculation thats why he can't last longer in bed. Its immensely frustrating for a man which most of the women fail to understand. Bt do not worry, as there are ways to combat such a problem. We have articles on how to last longer in bed and premature ejaculation. So, go through them and ask him to implement them for better results.

http://home-family.top54u.com/post/Ways-To-Last-Longer-In-Bed.aspx

http://home-family.top54u.com/post/Premature-Ejeculation.aspx

And if all this doesn't work for him, then there might be some other problem and for that consult some good qualified physician.

Top54u team wishes both of you a satisfying sexual life ahead!
Bimeda
haii..
thanks fro the tips!!

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