My spouse often says these three magical words "I love you" (of course to me), and the best part is that these words have become a trademark of our conversation. But does this mean that my spouse truly loves me? No! No! No! Don’t get me wrong as I am not some sort of an over suspicious partner, nor do I have any doubt or fear of infidelity. But as the question "How to know if someone is your soulmate?" is very normal in any relationship, so I am just trying to help many curious minds like me by figuring out some ways to solve this puzzle. The following are the 5 remarkable tips that would surely help us out from this intriguing riddle:

1) The first and foremost tip for judging the true love is the level of spiritual and emotional intimacy one gets from one’s partner. If you are feeling low or upset, a must needed support would always be there for you. Your spouse would be there for you to clear off your depressed state and would always cheer you up with his/her able support whenever you need him/her the most (Yes! my spouse is just like that).

2) If you are two bodies with one soul then there is no need to read the rest of the tips. The road of true love is full of roadblocks as the journey is very difficult. The phrase two bodies with one soul implies that both of you feel each others pain. If your spouse feels your pain and acts as a painkiller in times of difficulty then it is love in the true sense (Well! It sounds like some sort of a melodrama and I think you are going to read the rest of the tips).

3) If he or she fills a sense of optimism in you and brings out all the positivity within you, then he/she truly loves you. When all around you are blaming you or the circumstances are just not in your favour, and if you have only that ‘someone special’ standing for you, then the love is true. (Yes! When I lost my job, my spouse played a significant part in keeping up my morale)

4) Blind trust and eternal understanding are two of the easiest ways of judging whether your partner loves you or not. Try this as a sure shot example; just say that you have read the documents and give him/her the documents to sign. If your partner signs them without asking anything, then you are the lucky one as you have got a gem of a person with you. (Yes! It sounds stupid but it works, I myself tried this and my partner signed on it without having a look. But don’t try to get the divorce papers signed as it could result in making your spouse get your insurance money. Hey you are supposed to laugh as the joke was funny)

5) No matter how busy one is, but if your partner really loves you then he/she would surely get some time off to spend some memorable moments with you. You are on top of the priority list of your spouse and no matter what the time is, you call him/her and the reply would always be there. (Yes! Whenever I leave a message on her voice mail, my partner calls me at first notice)

The answer to the question, is clear from the above 5 tips. Now, I can say that Yes, when my spouse says "I love you", then it just not the words but the care, affection, faith, understanding, devotion and so on that shows the extent of the true love. I have got my answer, what about you? Feel free to share your comments with me.