Is it Love or Lust?

by top54u.com 02 Jul, 2008

Love or Lust - What is it?

"Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired." Robert Frost must have said these words keeping in mind the divinity and significance of Love.


The exact feelings as how one feels while in love, are hard to be explained in words, as it is quite an intriguing situation. However, Love definitely is full of mixed emotions as one feels confused as well as joyous at the same time. Joyous because one gets freedom from the boring singledom and confused as one is not sure whether it is love or not!


As they say "The desire of love is to give. The desire of lust is to get." Thus, the emotions of love versus lust are interrelated and most of you readers would agree with me if I say that love starts with attraction and lust is an integral part of Attraction. But do keep into consideration that there is a very thin line between Love and lust because this dazzling relationship is based on the principle of give and take. There are certain hints that can help you out in finding out whether the person is seriously in love with you or it is just a physical desire.


The following are the ways to find out if it is love or not:


1) Eyes say it all; just observe carefully the eyes of the person and especially if you are a female with some beautiful assets, you understand what I mean. Also, if you want to confirm whether it is lust or not, then go with any of your friends who should be wearing super skimpy clothes and then check out the lusty eyes.


2) One can judge the element of lust in the approach of the person, who is either just trying to get physical with you or finding ways to come closer to you and touch you.


3) Being in love has something to do with butterflies in the stomach and lust injects cockroaches below the stomach. It implies that a lusty person would think about sex, sex and only sex.


4) The person in lust would hesitate in meeting you in a public place and after two or three dates, you can understand the exact motive of the person in lust. Try to get the meeting arranged in a public place and see it yourself the unusual hesitation and complicated actions of that person.


5) As there is a difference between relationship compatibility and sexual compatibility, similarly there is a difference between sweet romantic talk and dirty vulgar talk. Thus, one should carefully observe the words of the person and if you somehow just cannot distinguish the difference, then Check out the body language signs in guys.


However, Robert Frost is absolutely right in defining the complexity of Love, as this feeling is based on a strong and complicated desire. An irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired and that is from where, the lust originates.

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