Marriage - Improve Relationship with Your Wife
Some say wife is life and some say wife is knife. But the fact is that even perfect husbands can’t understand what exactly is wife! Many a times, I have seen men depressed, confused and frustrated just because of their spouses. They want to improve their relationship with their wife but don’t know what to do!
Well! It is aptly said
"A Husband-wife relationship is like sand, held in your hand. Held loosely, with an open hand, the sand remains where it is. The minute you close your hand and squeeze tightly to hold on, the sand trickles through your fingers. You may hold onto some of it, but most will be spilled. A relationship is like that. Held loosely, with respect and freedom for the other person, it is likely to remain intact. But hold too tightly, too possessively, and the relationship slips away and is lost." After this great philosophical explanation of Husband wife relationship, the question that comes in mind is ‘what should one do to improve the relationship?"
So all you curious husbands as well as future husbands, here are some of the tips that can play a significant role in improving your marriage relationship:
(1.) The first and foremost advice to make your relationship sweeter is just a fresh beginning. Don’t just keep on thinking about the irritating aspects of your wife like nagging, etc. (I know it is a bit difficult), just forget whatever happened in the past and start afresh at least from your side. Gift her something romantic and see how it works.
(2.) Share responsibilities with your wife. Yes, wives just love when their husbands help them in doing household things. I am not saying to do all her work but just lend a helping hand like cleaning up your bedroom, dusting of the PC, and being with the baby or taking care of the children. If you are not good at any of such tasks, even then just saying that ‘how can I help you dear?" is more than sufficient and your wife would love you for this.
(3.) Go out on shopping with your wife. After hearing this, many of the men would have fainted and many would just want to kill me. But the fact is that women just love shopping, so take your wife out on shopping and she would find you more charming than ever. Buy her some sexy lingerie and hint out how sensuous she is.
(4.) Spend more time with your wife; even going out for a date can work wonders. I have seen many marriages suffering just because the couple lacks spending quality time together. Take her out for a candle light dinner, or you can go for a long drive together to cherish some memorable moments together. At least laugh together once a day.
(5.) Love can strengthen any relationship, so tell her how much you love her, how beautiful she is and everything that makes her happy (I know lying is not good, but sometimes it gives out tremendous results). Men mostly think that love and Sex are interrelated and that is what ruins a relationship. So all you husbands out there if you seriously want to improve your relationship with your wife then never force her for sex, on the contrary, provide her emotional intimacy first and believe she would herself be there to fulfill all your fantasies.
The above five tips would definitely help you out in improving your relationship with your wife. The most important thing is that that you should understand the importance of communication and mutual understanding. Use these tips and then feel free to share your experience, also check out the 5 most romantic things to say to know what else can make your spouse happy.