Marriage Advice just for you

Marriage- This 8-letter word has a whole new world in it. In this, a man and a woman get tied up in an eternal relationship. They are not only husband-wife but life-partners who breathe, think and act together.

So, to make this Heaven exist on this earth only, both of you are expected to keep certain things in mind:

1. Understanding- Just realize the other person is also like us

Never jump to conclusions without understanding the person. A marriage is a sacred relationship that is to be mended if any fault occurs, not to be broken. Its a beautiful blend of joys, sorrows, fights and patch-ups.

These things have their own sweetness, its not that there are no quarrels between a happy and loving marriage. Do not take these trifles so seriously. This gives you the opportunity to improve yourself, to become a good life partner.

2. Friendship- Make your life partner Your best friend

"It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages"

Just mark my words here- be communicative with your life partner whole-heartedly and see how your life changes into a heaven on this earth. Do not be scared even if you did something wrong, you are also a human being.

Nobody on this earth is perfect, so why feel the burden on your shoulders? Just be positive and ready to face the situation. Avoiding certain situations in life worsen them with time and result in unpredictable disasters.

Its not that if today you are having problems with each other then tomorrow they will worsen. No, my dear. Time never remains the same.



3. Patience- A single moment versus Your whole life

"Patience is power; with time and patience the mulberry leaf becomes silk"

What we normally do, we want the other to listen to us and if the other person fails to do so, we get irritated. What is this man? I mean, why are we so mean? If we cannot listen to others patiently then how do we expect the same from others?

4. Praise- Praise Your Partner

"Applaud him when he runs, Console him when he falls, and Cheer him when he recovers"

Compliment your partner and give a new direction to your relationship. Coz nobody else will take pains to improve your relationship. After all, who cares! Improve your marriage by paying a bit more attention. No matter how busy you are, you must take time to make each other feel important.



5. Love- Live the life of your partner

"Happy marriages begin when we marry the ones we love, and they blossom when we love the ones we marry."

Life has no charm without your loved one.

You live for your love, you breathe for your love and it becomes your reason for living. Without love, life has no meaning. All joys, sorrows, satisfaction, company, your reason for existence- are nothing without love.

6. Self-realization- First get to know who you are

To expect anything from your spouse, first try to know yourself- what u are, what u can give in your relationship n what u cannot…. Because u cannot expect those things that u yourself cannot do. For instance, if u cannot withstand your spouse having a relationship with anybody else outside your marriage, then how can u dare to expect that your spouse to allow u? Its well said:

Treat others the way u want yourself to be treated…



7. Self-satisfaction- Don’t ignore your own feelings

Never agree on what u do not believe in to avoid further frustration. U must feel good to do good. Or this will encourage negative vibes between u two. But this does not mean that u straightaway reject what your spouse asks u to go for, initially say okay, n try to express yourself later on. Give each other some time for better understanding.

8. Sex- Say yes to love-making at least once a week

Love-making is infact, one of the main ingredients that build up a long-lasting marriage. Avoiding it may play havoc with your married life. After all, being more than mere husband-wife, u are life partners. Enjoy being close to each other, after all its the basic need of a human being.

Let ur sexiness overrule ur senses n see the magic it brings to ur relationship!

9. Devotion- Devote some quality time to each other

Everyday, ask each other if any of u two felt bad about something in general. Then try to support n assure that u are always there for him whatever happens and vice-versa.

10. Caring attitude- Pamper your partner with special treatment on weekends

This weekend, do not ask your spouse to bring you something, get you something, find something for you, or serve you something. Instead, offer some special pampering services to your spouse. This will make both of you feel extremely devoted to each other.

Its just the mindset, nothing else. If both of you sit and discuss that where lies the problem then you can sort it out by deciding that both will try to take the initiative to understand each other. Neither of you will expect the other one to take the first step. This way no problem or no situation can affect your marriage.

To save marriage, always go for online marriage help. May God bless you and your marriage.