Want more on relationship advice? So, here are some more tips on how to be a great wife. In the last posting, we discussed some points like :
first get to know yourself, not to ignore your own feelings to avoid any frustration, always stay charming in accordance of what man wants in a relationship and to say yes to love making or sex at least for once in a week. And, here I am going to add a few more tips on make your relationship better than ever...
5. Devote some quality time to each other Everyday, ask each other if any of you two felt bad about something in general. Then try to support n assure that you are always there for him whatever happens and vice-versa. But you being a wife, never expect him to say anything first to you. Why don’t u break the ice. Maybe next time he himself takes the initiative. So, change your attitude and enjoy each other’s company.
6. Have some tolerance power. Don’t give up so easily A bit of patience is a good relationship advice to keep your marriage working. It gives you a ‘no problem’ kind of an attitude which has been proven to be a hit formula many a times. When you are cool, your husband can’t carry on his argument for longer. And the other way is to love yourself for what you are n what you do……don’t panic if you are a housewife or a working woman. Try continuously to make you better n better but not thinking urself as inferior to somebody rather be always on a mission to improve yourself each day, with every experience.
But what will you do if your husband still keeps offending you in front of others? Definitely, your answer will be, “I will give up…” isn’t that so? But no my dear friend, its not so easy to live alone whatever you say. In this situation, you should arrange sometime to spend with each other, at any cost, and you just say (not complain), “dear, have I done something very wrong? Please let me know….. I will never do so again coz I really love you n can’t see you being irritated with me. Why do you offend me in front of others? Have I ever done so with you? Infact, I always respect you so much then what is there that makes you behave in such a manner?” Inspite of this, if he pays no heed, then its up to you. You are free to do whatever you feel is right for you. The only thing is not to give up so easily. Try your best, n if all useless, then just follow your instinct. The only thing is that don't ever give up unless he makes you sick or drives you crazy. After all, nobody is perfect. Even if he's 51%, keep him.
7. Praise ur mate whole-heartedly Make sure that you praise your partner at least once every day. Try to mention new things that you really admire in your partner. This will definitely work for your relationship. Being sincere in your way of complimenting your partner, you can give a new direction to your relationship because nobody from outside is going to take pains to improve your relationship with your partner. After all, who cares! Its only you and your husband who can do something. See, what happens after 40, when your kids are away for studies, then your husband becomes more willing to share his own feelings n experiences with you. As a matter of fact, when men get older, they need more cherishing, and in the case of women, they need more respect. But life comes in phases and plateaus; you can’t have it all today only. You should save some for tomorrow. Your family is such a precious gift that will keep on giving back throughout your life. So, be a good team member.
And if you follow this relationship advice to become better, then I assure you that other women will start becoming jealous of you on hearing your husband saying, “I am proud of my beautiful & wise wife. She is the best.” Now its up to you, how you make your dream come true…… ALL THE VERY BEST TO U!!!
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8/9/2008 5:17:51 AM