The Perfect Couple- Things To Avoid
1. do not compare your partner with others'- Nobody likes comparisons, and your spouse is no exception! Get satisfied with what you have rather than grumbling for what you do not. Learn to appreciate what your spouse does for you.
2. do not be suspicious- Getting suspicious of your life partner will give you the same in return. Learn to trust your spouse lest end up in separation or divorce which will leave nothing for you to cherish in your old age. Have faith in each other and try to understand the situation your spouse is
3. do not hesitate to initiate sexual pleasures with your spouse- Be open with your spouse when it comes to sex. Having a rocking sex is what every couple desires for and without being expressive will spoil your relationship. If you want your spouse to play with your body and arouse you to climax then your partner might be looking for the same expression from your side.
4. do not talk ill of your spouse- Talking ill of each other can never save your relationship. Get this thing in your mind that nobody is perfect on this earth. Look inside you, you will find so many faults and deficiencies, then how could you expect your partner to be perfect or the way you want!
Also, your spouse might be expecting a lot of things from you which you cannot or will never do. How will you feel if you come to know from someone else that your spouse talks ill of you when you are not there!
5. do not ill-treat your spouse's family or loved ones- To get a special place in your spouse's heart and life, you should respect and love the dear ones of your spouse.
6. do not pretend to be what you are not- Be realistic. This is the golden rule of a successful relationship. Remain what you are, and try not to pretend what you are not. Your partner married you for what you are rather than what you are not.
7. do not tell lies- Be truthful to each other to build a strong healthy relationship.
8. do not hide your feelings or opinions- Hiding things from your partner will only make the situations worse. Instead share whatever you did or whatever happened to you, even if you were wrong. If you are wrong, then he/she is not going to kill you. Maybe, things get better.
9. never go to bed before you resolve your issues, if any
10. do not irritate each other when busy with some important task
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Tags: the perfect couple, do's and don'ts, happy couple, marriage
5/17/2008 1:03:21 PM